My Friends Have Stopped Talking to Me

They are right when they say that you need to stop jumping oceans for people who would not even jump puddles for you. And this is why, meeting new people, being absolutely friendly with them and then getting separated from them is a phase of life, nothing to be guilty about.

People live up with a guilt that their friends stopped talking to them after a certain period of time, even when they tried very hard to keep in touch with them. Do you call your friends from time to time to know their well-being, but these friends never call or message you in spite of no issues in their life?

Well, first of all, if you have such friends who would not even care to message or call you even once in a year (at least your birthday), you need to lose them at the earliest. And secondly, if you already lost these friends, you should not repent even a bit on their lost. In fact, it’s them who should feel the loss and if they don’t, they probably never needed you in the first place.

So if your friends stopped talking to you, but they hardly ever talked even when you were friends, it hardly matters. And if some of your closest friends stopped talking, probably it’s a phase of time and you would get over it to know that those who leave on their own were never too worthy of your friendship.

However, you also need to assess whether you were right in the whole situation. If you did anything wrong to your friends, you must apologize and try all that you can to be friends with your good friends.